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Anonymous
Goodluck =)
Sonskyn
Maybe it won’t be as bad as you expect.
Good luck.
Anonymous
this should be on fmlife.com
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I hope for you, that it will turn out alright !
mhm
i wish u luck :I
♥
good luck, the best thing you can do is be honest.
Mary Jane
Good luck!
Lady Jane
Be strong. My friends have known I am bisexual for years, but now that I am serious about a woman I have been in love with for years, they can’t face it. I am happy, and they will come around. Everything that is worth it takes time, and if they are truly your friend they too will look past who you love to love you for who you are.
Best of luck, and know that although I don’t know you I love you for your honesty and bravery.
Meg
Good luck! I’ll pray that everything goes well and that your friend starts being more of a friend.
:3
Don’t be scared, she’s your friend so they will eventually come to understand. Have trust in them
and good luck to you.
Anonymous
Hon i have been in that exact position, if your friend is a true friend she will stand by you no matter what, if not, its sad to watch them go but you know that it is for the best, if your friend cant accept you for who you are, and who you love, then there not a real friend.
Romeo
Good luck man..
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lucy
Lady Jane, i´m lesbian, how you aproach to a girl you like and is straight?
Lady Jane
Lucy,
We have all been in this situation at one time or another, whether we are straight, bisexual or homosexual. It is a hard place to be, as it is human nature to be attracted to beauty: internal, external, feasible or not. I assume you are young, and I tell you this: this is the time of your life where everyone is discovering their sexuality. I was infatuated with a friend when I was younger, I said nothing to her ever. I knew without a doubt she was straight. It is hard to have those feelings and not be able to share them, but it is also hard to share them and not have them reciprocated. For now, watch, listen and discover. Your friend may be doing the same with her life. Many people keep it secret during teen years, I know I did for about two years. You will find someone who shares in your desire, it just takes time sometimes. It is worth it in the end. I waited eight years for my girlfriend, and I knew she was a lesbian. It was a long and, at times, painful process, however, I would not change it for anything.
I wish you luck, and if ever you need to talk, you can email me at, 81ladyjane@gmail.com
lucy
thanks for the advice Lady Jane.
yes, i´m young, i´m 22, first time a discover I like girls was years ago with a mom´s friend, she teach me allot, but i moved.
I have only an*l sex with some boys (the like it) but i think in a girl to have fun and relax.
someone ::
good luck x
K.
I am 15 and I am bisexual. I am head over heels in love with this woman. she is married with kids. But I cant seem to get over her, she is straight. But I dont know how to get over her..
areyouforcereal
K.,
you’re inlove with a married woman? WOW.
redlover
i had same experience when i was a kid up until highschool, i was inlove with one girl/woman i grew up with (classmates from elementary til HS). it was hard but i enjoyed all those years of loving her. I didn’t confess to her ever coz its so obvious, all our friends knew about my feelings. And she probably have heard about it. She remained friends with me but had boyfriends (i was like so called bestfriend) She’s now in another country. Now she is has boyfriend and one child. She still remain special to me after 14years (im 25)
redlover
About K, i had those fantasies with older women when i was your age. My advice is, give it a time. To see for yourself that it’s not infatuation or something like “ur after the chase”. It will really help to sort out your feelings. And also for you to not waste ur time and effort and emotions on something that is not very clear and unsure.
lucy
i´m still here, i´m 22 and lesbian, i´m not considered bi becouse i have sex with some guys and i don´t like it., if i have to repeat it i do it analy.