She doesn't need to know...

 

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    x

    don’t you think she should?

     
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    Anonymous

    Yes she does…

     
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    v

    nothing is ever truly secret..
    there’s always a spark a doubt+hurt..
    honesty is sometimes brutal but always best.
    love is intimacy. respect.

     
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    Anonymous

    shiaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…that what us modern day people call cheating…

     
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    dlemus30

    my wife once told me “there are things you should not tell your loved one”, do you think it is better to keep certain secrets not to hurt your couple?

     
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    ShaWty

    hAvInG anOtha fLinG?

    GoOd fOr yOuUuUuUuUuUu.

     
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    Valloir

    This is a stunning photo.

     
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    Andi

    tell her… maybe she’s knows and is just waiting for you to tell her

     
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    Anonymous

    Yes she does! When you get that feeling like you should keep something a secret it means you NEED to tell! (Trust me on this one . . .)

     
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    Anonymous

    Why not? Why live a lie?

     
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    Anonymous

    Yes she does…

     
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    hopelss.romantc

    she does
    she’s gnna know anyway
    why just cut the process and tell her

     
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    JustADreamer

    Actually, she DOES need to know. I’m pretty sure she’s going to eventually find out eventually anyway. Save all of you the extra pain and tell her now.

     
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    Annoynymous

    that i saw a mermaid and kissed her

     
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    Anonymous

    If you can’t be open about it, you shouldn’t be doing it. Simple.

     
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    SKKJ

    isn’t she your better half? THINK

     
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    Romeo

    Hey common you don’t have to tell anyone anything, all these women trying to be all sweet with you here are not helping, they are day dreaming, I am not saying to lie about it but saying that don’t go knocking on peoples doors for trouble, just relax but if she comes up and asks you, than in that moment as man make your own decision, not because you love her and all that bullshit but because you want to a honest man despite the consequences.

     
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    Z

    @ one of the Anonymous who said “shiaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…that what us modern day people call cheating…”

    No. It’s not cheating. It’s what we call “not telling everything”. There’s a difference between the two. :)

     
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    -EmPtY SoUl-

    Pls tell her,atleast she knows that someone is there to love her….

     
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    Anonymous

    Don’t do unto others what you would not like done to you..

     
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    Anonymous

    nope, I am a woman and I agree… what I don’t know doesn’t hurt me. Right?!?!?

     
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    Anonymous

    I think that depends on what do you feel about the other one! or what do you feel for both? at some point you will have to make a decision, just dont take too long ´coz when you realize what you have done, could be too late! so the question is what do you feel for each one???

     
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    girl

    she doesnt need to know…..and she probably won’t know, ive had secrets who people never find out, especially my couple, so, its up to you, but its not good to lie, but then again, its not good to do many bad things we are used to and are so acustumed to them we dont really see them as bad.

     
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    Anonymous

    The truth will come out…and told from rooftops……..wait and just you see. Maybe

     
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    Anonymous

    i love her… but im pretty sure she doesn’t love me
    what do i do?????????

     
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    me

    i love her, but im pretty sure she doesn’t love me…
    what do i do??????????

     
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    Anonymous

    Idont think so;

     
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    Anonymous

    she does need to know because otherwise she’ll find out on her own + that will hurt more

     
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    nobody

    I think that in almost every situation, the truth is found out in the end. The longer you leave it and the more distant the friend who finally tells her, the worse it will hurt.

     
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    Anonymous

    SHE NEEDS TO KNOW
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    Shattered

    I dunno, every case is different, though these things usually end in pain and hurt;

    She may figure it out, get a hint, or remove herself from the situation. Either way, you are the one who decides whether she needs to know or not ~

     
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    G

    I decided to write this down, because I was there – as a wife with a cheating husbant and because you might find this useful. The worst feeling, after the feeling that I’m not loved, was the lack of respect – I though that i am the most stupid person on the planet. Don’t make her feel the same way, because this is the hardest part to forgive and forget. I have forgiven him, but i’ll never forget.
    So – it’s better to tell, otherwise she’ll find out anyway and than is worse.

     

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