My dad raped me...

 

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    K

    OMG :( I feel for you. :( (

     
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    RR

    Hey..its too sad.

     
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    Anonymous

    tell someone who will believe you.
    a teacher or your mum
    it cant happen again.

     
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    Anonymous

    OMG!!! NEVER STOP TELLING!!!

    JUST GATHER THE EVIDENCES

     
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    sweetness -> the creator

    omg ,, did no one believe yoou ?
    is there no one you can go to stay with so you dont have to be that close to him ?

     
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    loveyou:)

    omg you should tell someone you trust. oh and yeah, i totally agree with the people commenting before me, gather evidence and never stop telling! good luck

     
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    Anonymous

    i really feel for you too..and i hope that your cries for help be answered soon.. please dont loose hope..i know u are facing the worst time of your life..i know for sure and i really hope that good times become a part of your life soon ..
    p.s; you are a very brave person

     
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    Anonymous

    That is just the worst thing I’ve heard in a while. Get a pepper spray, a strong lock, or anything to protect yourself. Tell child services or try to save enough money to leave and never return.

     
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    Lambxo

    I believe you. People just choose not to believe in what might change their lives. You have to stay strong and keep saying it until SOMETHING is done. You could be saving a life besides your own even. I knew someone who was molested, he kept saying it until the authorities arrested his molester, RIGHT before he molested someone else. Our actions can change someone else’s life forever, not just our own.

     
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    Anonymous

    put a camera or something so that theres evidence.

     
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    thisgurl

    don’t let it happen again! Gather for evidence. I believe in you. So, let’s stop it!

     
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    anonymous

    record it, then he can be prosecuted. its the only way!

     
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    Anonymous

    Set up a video cam, catch him, a video with you saying “No” will go a long way.

     
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    Anonymous

    Stay strong.
    I’ll pray for you<<3

     
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    Anonymous

    If he ever does it again try to go to the hospital to get a rape kit done. It will collect the evidence needed. Remember you are never alone, like the others have said just keep telling. there is a website http://www.rainn.org/ there are many other sites and hotlines that can help.

     
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    Anonymous

    Hun, I’m sorry you shouldn’t have to go through that. Like everyone else is saying don’t stop telling people… eventually someone will listen. And you are a very brave person… I don’t know that I would have been able to tell anyone in the first place because admitting it would only make it too real for me, if that makes sense

     
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    Aya A.R

    I’m so sorry for this hun :(
    Try get some self defense item like stunn gun or pepper spray or even take some self defense classes dont just lay there wait for it to happen again . Also try telling your aunts?uncles?mom?grandparents? any reletive about this or go to the police AGAIN . Just don’t make it happen again .

     
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    Anonymous

    Never stop speaking out!!! Try to get proof and if her does it again go to the police! They’ll get his DNA!!! Hang in there!

     
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    adrian

    that sounds hott! sorry if i offended anyone.

     
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    Anonymous

    can’t they do like one of those thingies where they check for semen? :S

     
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    yay!

    wow, ya dads a pervent, a sick, dirty old pervent, sorry if i offend you but its true, get out now

     
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    dad

    you said you’d tell noone.

     
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    Sylvia

    You shouldn’t have to go through this. Collect evidence, tell people who’ll believe you, and so on. Good luck!!!!!!

     
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    Anonymous

    I know how you feel. I told my parents what happened and they blew me off, My Mom yelled at me every night because she could hear me crying, I had horrible dreams,and i was found sleep walking alot, I cried myself to sleep for about a year and a half until I told my Aunt she told my Mom and she told me I never said this to her while im standing there thinking you just don’t care about me enough to listen. If you tell you will go through a hole load of stuff will happen like shild services will some to your hous,you’ll have to tell the story 3times and you’ll be interviewed and if you go to court like i did you’ll have to do one of those sessions where the lawyer asks you all these questions in a room infront of a camera:’( It’s tough and people tell you to forget about it but it’s one of those things that stick with you forever because it was so tramatic. Also Yeah you have to go through all these things but its worth it cuz you don’t have to see that jerk every weekend in my case. Hope you tell soon(:
    Emily<3<3

     
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    Anonymous

    whoever claims to be “dad” is a jerk for saying that!!!!!>:(

     
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    THEweirdONE♥

    thats horrible, your dad is fucked up. try getting pepper spray, and if he tries it again, spray him in the eyes with it ( also tell the police again and MAKE them listen, please dont put up with that sick bastard! ) kick him in the nuts for me if you can, that asshole deserves it!

     
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    Mistanthropist

    Dude, I had the same thing. For years.. I was 14 when it started and 17 when it ended. Depressed, suicidal, antisocial. I still remember lying in the bathtub and knowing that my body isn’t pure and doesn’t really belong to me. I also remember that goddamn feeling in the bed, lying next to him. All the lies.. the pain – both physical and mental. I just knew what’s sex and rape all about when somebody discussed it. Then I gathered all my strength and told my mother. And it stopped. He never touched me again. But pretending nothing ever happened sucks hard. Although I’m still depressed and antisocial, the horror is partially gone. You know, it always stays as a part of you – it’s irreversible. But if you know that it must be stopped, then do what you know is right. Just don’t get to murder – that would fuck your life up. I wish you some good luck, if it hasn’t already happened! Be strong and don’t give up on life. It’s not sweet, but it ain’t bad.

     
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    Ri

    i sympathise with you

     
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    liz

    i can’t get the other things because he strip searchs me. i cant go to the hospital cause he locks me in my room. but i have gotten used to it. i realized everyone goes through something traumatic in their life, some worse then others but we as people have to deal with it however we can. I am gonna be okay. i have gone through all the depression and suicidalness so i think i should be out of the woods as long as i dont get myself down again.

     
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    beth

    im so sorry…

     
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    L A

    adrian and “dad”, you guys are jerks
    hold on and don’t give up this can’t go on! try taping it or start taking after-school jobs, gather up some money and run away and forget all about him
    start ur own new life as if he never exicted
    good luckk!! let us know what happened with u by commenting!

     
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    ILoveAlexEvans

    That shouldn’t happen ever again . If I had to go through that I wouldn’t know what to do . That must really suck having to go to sleep every night thinking that he is in your house . Ive been abused verbally and Ive been hit so I went to cutting and abusing myself but I realized that didnt help it only hurt others . Keep telling people babe, you gotta be stong and stick to your word because eventually, hopefully soon enough people will understand where your coming from and listen <3

     
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    Anonymous

    Why is it Sasori from Naruto?

     
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    Anonymous

    gather evidence.

    NOW.
    dont let it happen again
    ):

     
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    patz

    omg :( im sorry dont gv up on urself gather evidence now…………..

     
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    docomo

    owww.. i am soo sorry for u.. just have faith in urself

     
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    just a girl

    im so sorry u have to get a rape kit done u need evidence anything even a voice recorder coz u just saying ‘no’ will hel’, try telling the police again they can not just ignore it!

     
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    Anonymous

    omg im so srry for you ur dad needs to b put to prison and hung by his dick

     
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    Anonymous

    if he tries that again and the police still dont believe you, hide a camera somewhere and record everything.

     
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    enchanted

    my god!!!how could a father do such a thing with his own daughter???its really sad..
    dun give up…fight back

     
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    Yours4Ever

    omfg next time he tries it on kick him in the balls and shout for help..or get a cam corder so people will belive. Woow, call childline on 0800111 seriously you beettter get it sorted out cuz hes a PEADO RAPIST! xxxgood luckxxx

     
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    lunatic.

    No offense, But I hope your “Dad” gets caught in a fire and just burn. :|

     
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    Jack

    SHIT! my dad tried to rape me but i stabed him in the leg and i got sent to juvie for it!

     
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    Anonymous

    if it happens regularly, go all out, try to gather evidence to show the police, make them believe you!

     
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    fallen angel

    use cammaras sound recoders hide them in your room gather your evidence but never give up or let him win dont stop telling

     
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    fallen angel

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxgood luck i feel for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

     

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