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Bri
I know. Sometimes it’s important that you do, other times..maybe there’s a reason it’s so hard.
Broken.
i miss you zach..
Why-Me
I got dumped yesterday by a boy I love.
I dont want to let go.
Inverted-Rainbows
It is so very hard to let go…with my last girlfriend, it took me about six months to do it….but it’ll make you feel so good when you finally do…it’s tough, but I hope all of you can find your peace <3
Celinee
Indeed it is and though I never thought I’d see the day, I did it.
I’m not looking back.
Anom
it takes more than 3 years for me to let go my first girl friend…. but now its ok then i’am free.
yeh
yeh, it is… T^T whyyyyyy
Anonymous
so true!!!but do we have an option???
Anonymous
yeah, i know what you mean. happened to me lots of times, and each one wasn’t even better than another. but sometimes it’s for the best
Lac
I never wanted to let go my first BF, but one day i just woke up (he had dumped me) and i realized that i have let him go, just like that, over one night after like month of suffering. It was the happiest day of my life. I opened windows and let sun shine over my face, i cried from happines i knew that new life had begun for me and it was true. I will never forget that day.
Just let it go!
infinity
i say, try to let go with love, feel the love going out from your vains, so that when it is gone, it is gone with all your love
Dawra
It’s even harder if it’s causing you pain, but some part of you doesn’t want to let go, and you can’t.
Anon.
i want to let go.
but i can’t. as much as i’ve tried, i see his beautiful eyes staring into mine and the feelings come rushing back.
he’s all i think about.
and tbh it’s killing me.
stillinlove
i hav left my fiancee5yrs bak stil miss hm all da time. don wana replac hm wid odr.i lov hm muchmre.bt he got marrid b4 i told hm hw weird it feel.anybdy guide me.hez wid hs fam bt he loves me still.knw it.bt wut can i do?help me out plz
Eva
^^ I nvr think all of ths world is easy…even a small thg.
Especially abt letting go. As u said, fuckin hard lol.
It really needs lots of time.
Uhm..dun think too much, juz face it step by step. When u find any rocks in a step, keep sayin 2 urself u knw u can n u`ll beat them all…cz if u cant, then dats all u are.
realizing or not,We try to let go…evryday. So, when u try to let go somthin bigger, it`s juz a part of it. It`s nonsense if u say u cant.
U cant then u wont survive till now. ^^
Aysa Rose Swan
My friend killed himself in february. He was 16. I think about him practically every night and then cry myself to sleep. I can not move on, i miss him. RIP josh, i will never forget you.
Anonymous
it’s been four years and i’m still trying to let him go
the forgotten
being forgotten is worse, be it best freinds, lovers, or simply family. and forgetting is a large part of letting go. and being replaced is worse. im letting go of a lot right now. and im being replaced. being on both ends suck.
afreen
i dumped him for last 2 month bt i still love n miss him. I dumped him bcz my family doesn’t want him ,,,,,, bcz he’s poor…….. I don’t know when i ll forget this memory.
me
it is only one side suffering always…let it go…as other side did it because of a reason which is good for him/her…
why to suffer then??? when your other side does not care!
Anonymous
I had to let go of my business, my house, my car.. I had to let go of the man i thought was going to marry me. Letting go is fucking hard! Still cant let go of any of it even tho im continueing wif an empty life. I knw exactly wat u mean ~hug~
Cillver
its even difficult with bitterness in heart….
loser
i dont know who u are… but u just expressed the feeling which caused me insomnia, made me drink and addicted to cigarettes…
I appreciate u shouting out loud…
Anonymous
he was just a crush. but it took me 4 years to let go of him. and it only happened when someone else began to show care for me and i felt loved all over again. by the new person.
dont worry, it is indeed hard but it’ll be over. =)))
Anonymous
I left him, I don’t love him romantically anymore, but I miss him everyday and he wants me back. Worse, I fell in love with someone else, now my heart is tearing in two. I don’t know what to do.
Toxicated
Its so true. My boyfriend said he didnt love me anymore and its been about a year and 3/4 of a year and i still havent let go. I still love him. I try soooo hard to let go but im scared that if i let go i might forget everything or he might forget all about me. I never wanted things to change but they did. I just cant change…</3
amy
Its very true. I still Love him even we already break off almost for a yr. I miss all the time tat we spend together. Maybe i should happy for him, cos after all he still got a happy family now. But what i hv at the end?? i know i still not letting go yet and i still live with my broken heart till today….cos it so hard to let go.. do u understand????
Anonymous
am in a relationship where this man is always critisizing everything he makes me feel real bad the problem is i love him so much its hard for me to leave.i just cant bring myself to let him go.
tara
hey anonymous if u will still feel bad n stay wid hm at da end of da day u wil b alon cz da guy wld leav u eithr nw r aftr smetime.hav gon thru all dis.he was so …i just hate hm nw cz i tried alot2 stay wid hm bt he took me 4 grantd didnt care humiliate me evrytim .aftr an yr i steepd out.n now he s folowin me 2 b wid hm.bt i wont.hate hm.so just let hm go u wld get gud man.
Anonymous
I broke up with my girlfriend 5yrs ago today, she has moved on started her family and even her own business. I live far away from her now because i couldnt stand being so close to her and not have her in my life the way i need her. I still think about her everyday, i compare her to ever woman i meet, i cant seem to find anyone to love. I am stuck with younger immature girls who do nothing for me other than satisfy my carnal desires. I need help and i dont think i will ever find it. Life goes on though…
sa
its been two years, and i still love a boy who physically hurt me, he even made me get rid of our baby, but still after everything, he means so much to me but i know hes never coming back.
enchanted
sometimes its harder to say no when u really mean yes.its hard to close your eyes when u really want to see,but the hardest thing to do is………………
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TO LET SOMEONE GO WHEN U WANT THAT PERSON TO STAY…
only i know what i ve been through after my first break up…its been 3 years i still cant get over him
Darling
I loved them and I killed them. I can’t let them go because I blame myself for not being quick enough to warn them. I blame myself for not taking our relationship up another level from friendship because I really did love them. I look at my hands a lot because these were the hands that let them go. I have loved them for 2.5 years and am cold to everyone else; yes I’m a bitch to people. I have insomnia for I can’t sleep without them both in my bed or two other people in my bed for that I can pretend that they are them. I have nightmares of my past and their deaths and murdered bodies. I don’t know if I can ever fully let go. Slowly though days are easier to face and it’s easier to not remember them without the guilt.
Anonymous
I still imagine he holds me at night.
cillver
the world world is love sick..
Anonymous
Two years later, I still have his texts on my phone, and his emails. A plushie he bought me during our Vegas trip still sits in my office. I’ve dated other guys, but I’ve never told them I love them (because I don’t).
Anonymous
I can’t let go. I split up with my boyfriend just recently due to his work commitments. He’s a Ln Cpl in the Army and won’t be back home for two years. :,(
We were so good, and had a clean break. No bitterness, no bad words, no fights..it just hurts so much knowing I can’t see him and seeing that he’s upset too. There’s nothing either of us can do.
He told me not to wait for him as he won’t be home for two years but I don’t want anybody else. It doesn’t feel right.
luvsick
i dun knw whthr m falin in lov wid a guy z trustable r nt as he shwz a lots f caress n luv…bt aftr readin ol d above textzz it scares me a lott…..:(….