Yeah, it’s like sometimes I can’t stop the act. I like people to sympathize for me as well. Though, it’s not a complete lie sometimes. Sometimes, it’s much, much worse then what I’m letting on but I love to suck in the attention.
Anonymous
both of u r pathetic
Anonymous
You are a terrible person. Rape and abuse are very serious problems, which often get overlooked because of stupid bitches like you who lie about it. Women out there are denied the proper care they need to recover from such a traumatizing event because of people like you. Stop being such an attention whore you dirty liar.
-
My best friend lied about this all, and more. When I finally found out it was a lie, I had already called the police in fear of her safety.
I can’t trust anyone now thanks to that.
Anonymous
thats horrible, ive been raped and sometimes when people hear about it they dont believe me because of people like you. if u cant tell the truth dont say anything atal!
Anonymous
You royally suck ass.
You’re probably just some spoiled snot of a kid with hair hanging over their face because they really can’t find anything wrong with their stable life.
Go screw yourself.
-
You spoiled brat.
I ought to smack you a few times and give you something to really whine about to draw attention to you.
People like you really make me sick.
anon
i was raped and sexually abused from the age of 6 til i was 17 because of sick little shits like you no one believed me, when they finally found out my rapist got given 15 years he only served for 7 now he lives in my neighborhood see how i fucking feel you fucking little shit
Anonymous
wow your awful how do u live with urself??
Anonymous
Wow, you’re a fucking bitch!!! I hope you actually get raped so you can know what it’s like. I’ve been raped and I hate the fucking whores who pretend they have been for pity and attention. It’s disgusting! I don’t know how you live with yourself!
Lambxo
You piece of shit, YOU are the reason people who suffered through rape and abuse get denied proper treatment, because of pathetic attention junkies like YOU. Get a grip, go to therapy and get over it!
Sarah
I understand.
if you ever want to talk to someone who won’t judge you.
Anonymous
Why do you crave attention so much??? If you really like the attention get raped first then it won’t be a lie anymore and you’ll get more sympathy. You’re such a bitch
mhm
i hate ppl like u
I don't exist
Why would you even pretend that? That is horrible. You need help, go cry to a therapist to get attention.
jade
this person did say ‘the truth hurts too much for you to ever know’
maybe something worse happens but she tells him she was raped and abused so he would understand. a little.
Anonymous
Karma… is a beautiful thing.. someday it will make it’s way to you, and give to you, what you have given others… you sick piece of shit.
Anonymous
wow, how quick did you all jump to judging this girl and calling her names?
fair enough, lying about being raped is horrifically wrong and pretending its happened to her for attention does sicken me
but surely for someone to feel the need to do this then something in some other part of her life must be severely fucked up and she needs help for that, not to be verbally abused
and now by saying all this horrible shit to her, if anything you’re just giving her real abuse to receive attention off and therefore making everything 10 times worse, well done dumbasses
and before you all start hating me and hurling abuse at me because ‘i dont know what it’s like’ i was sexually abused my step dad for six years, and then when i finally escaped to a ‘haven’ my grandad raped me so dont even start
to the girl who wrote this: you need help, go online to an anonymous councellor and talk to them about the steps you need to take, and also come clean to your friends, pretty soon they’ll probably start to realise your lies so you might aswell come clean yourself. it will suck and lots of people will hate you for a long time, but time heals all wounds
sarah
you make me sick i was raped pretty much everyday from the time i was 3 and no one believed me thanks to sick fucks like you ,
Anonymous
I am the one that did this secret and i wasnt lying i have been raped and abused by my father, that was the part i wouldnt tell them because it was too much to handle. I told them i was abused by a friend ok. All you guys are so rude to be calling me all that. YES i know what rape is like and abuse thanks alot guys. If you havent nothing nice to say dont say anything at all. that really hurt you guys.
TheGirl
You know all these things youve said on the picture remind me of a friend of mine who had said to me on msn one of her secrets was put on secretzen. It better not be this or I’m never EVER going to speak to her again.
Anonymous
so you lied about who had raped and abused you but did it so someone would feel bad for you? I’m sorry that a) you really were raped and abused, b) that you felt the need to implicate someone else as the abuser and c) that you felt the need to disclose this to people not because you wanted their help or support but so that they would feel bad for you. Although I understand that what people have written is hurtful, in some ways what they were saying was true – although you really were abused you are using it to gain sympathy which is kinda messed up and does feed the idea of victims not being believed.
I think that you need to talk to someone, not only about your need for sympathy but also about the abuse.
Logical
TheGirl… why wont u ever talk to her again? I can relate to this secret and its not like we can trust alot of ppl cuz we are scared of what ppl may do and that once they find out they may do the same thing.. We really need good friends in our lives to support us even though they dont know the truth.. TheGirl, are a horrible friend
Anonymous
my friend lied about a friend dying, to get attention. It’s seriously pathetic because I don’t know how i can trust her again. I think you should see a counseller.
anon
its okay. my ex did that. and when she finally told us, we all understood. it took some time, but all her friends still love her. and we have moved on. we had contacted social services, and they tried to take her away from her family because she said that they had abused her. but it all turned out okay. tell the truth. it might not be so bad. im not judging you, sometimes you cant help it.
Anonymous
that is a disturbing picture.
Anonymous
:’( i was raped…im 15 now…why would you lie about somethimg like this?
K.
its okay. im the same way, kinda. i know how you feel, dont listen to these poeple. i think its alright as long as ur not telling the cops and stuff.
Kayla Mason
I lied too..
Anonymous
this is all disturbing
Anonymous
i don’t know how you could live with yourself after telling a lie that could ruin not only your life, but someone else’s life. what a cruel, cruel person you are.
Anonymous
what a cruel cruel person you are to not only want to ruin your own life with a lie like this, but also ruin someone else’s life. all because of a lie. why? what sick people you are
susan nichol
As someone who was sexually abused when i was 9 years old, i very angry with fucking idiots like you.
do you know how hard it is for people to believe you.
one day you might get raped for real and no one will believe you, have you ever thought about that, you stupid stupid little girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
unlike you i don’t lie about being abused
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Yeah, it’s like sometimes I can’t stop the act. I like people to sympathize for me as well. Though, it’s not a complete lie sometimes. Sometimes, it’s much, much worse then what I’m letting on but I love to suck in the attention.
Anonymous
both of u r pathetic
Anonymous
You are a terrible person. Rape and abuse are very serious problems, which often get overlooked because of stupid bitches like you who lie about it. Women out there are denied the proper care they need to recover from such a traumatizing event because of people like you. Stop being such an attention whore you dirty liar.
-
My best friend lied about this all, and more. When I finally found out it was a lie, I had already called the police in fear of her safety.
I can’t trust anyone now thanks to that.
Anonymous
thats horrible, ive been raped and sometimes when people hear about it they dont believe me because of people like you. if u cant tell the truth dont say anything atal!
Anonymous
You royally suck ass.
You’re probably just some spoiled snot of a kid with hair hanging over their face because they really can’t find anything wrong with their stable life.
Go screw yourself.
-
You spoiled brat.
I ought to smack you a few times and give you something to really whine about to draw attention to you.
People like you really make me sick.
anon
i was raped and sexually abused from the age of 6 til i was 17 because of sick little shits like you no one believed me, when they finally found out my rapist got given 15 years he only served for 7 now he lives in my neighborhood see how i fucking feel you fucking little shit
Anonymous
wow your awful how do u live with urself??
Anonymous
Wow, you’re a fucking bitch!!! I hope you actually get raped so you can know what it’s like. I’ve been raped and I hate the fucking whores who pretend they have been for pity and attention. It’s disgusting! I don’t know how you live with yourself!
Lambxo
You piece of shit, YOU are the reason people who suffered through rape and abuse get denied proper treatment, because of pathetic attention junkies like YOU. Get a grip, go to therapy and get over it!
Sarah
I understand.
if you ever want to talk to someone who won’t judge you.
Anonymous
Why do you crave attention so much??? If you really like the attention get raped first then it won’t be a lie anymore and you’ll get more sympathy. You’re such a bitch
mhm
i hate ppl like u
I don't exist
Why would you even pretend that? That is horrible. You need help, go cry to a therapist to get attention.
jade
this person did say ‘the truth hurts too much for you to ever know’
maybe something worse happens but she tells him she was raped and abused so he would understand. a little.
Anonymous
Karma… is a beautiful thing.. someday it will make it’s way to you, and give to you, what you have given others… you sick piece of shit.
Anonymous
wow, how quick did you all jump to judging this girl and calling her names?
fair enough, lying about being raped is horrifically wrong and pretending its happened to her for attention does sicken me
but surely for someone to feel the need to do this then something in some other part of her life must be severely fucked up and she needs help for that, not to be verbally abused
and now by saying all this horrible shit to her, if anything you’re just giving her real abuse to receive attention off and therefore making everything 10 times worse, well done dumbasses
and before you all start hating me and hurling abuse at me because ‘i dont know what it’s like’ i was sexually abused my step dad for six years, and then when i finally escaped to a ‘haven’ my grandad raped me so dont even start
to the girl who wrote this: you need help, go online to an anonymous councellor and talk to them about the steps you need to take, and also come clean to your friends, pretty soon they’ll probably start to realise your lies so you might aswell come clean yourself. it will suck and lots of people will hate you for a long time, but time heals all wounds
sarah
you make me sick i was raped pretty much everyday from the time i was 3 and no one believed me thanks to sick fucks like you ,
Anonymous
I am the one that did this secret and i wasnt lying i have been raped and abused by my father, that was the part i wouldnt tell them because it was too much to handle. I told them i was abused by a friend ok. All you guys are so rude to be calling me all that. YES i know what rape is like and abuse thanks alot guys. If you havent nothing nice to say dont say anything at all. that really hurt you guys.
TheGirl
You know all these things youve said on the picture remind me of a friend of mine who had said to me on msn one of her secrets was put on secretzen. It better not be this or I’m never EVER going to speak to her again.
Anonymous
so you lied about who had raped and abused you but did it so someone would feel bad for you? I’m sorry that a) you really were raped and abused, b) that you felt the need to implicate someone else as the abuser and c) that you felt the need to disclose this to people not because you wanted their help or support but so that they would feel bad for you. Although I understand that what people have written is hurtful, in some ways what they were saying was true – although you really were abused you are using it to gain sympathy which is kinda messed up and does feed the idea of victims not being believed.
I think that you need to talk to someone, not only about your need for sympathy but also about the abuse.
Logical
TheGirl… why wont u ever talk to her again? I can relate to this secret and its not like we can trust alot of ppl cuz we are scared of what ppl may do and that once they find out they may do the same thing.. We really need good friends in our lives to support us even though they dont know the truth.. TheGirl, are a horrible friend
Anonymous
my friend lied about a friend dying, to get attention. It’s seriously pathetic because I don’t know how i can trust her again. I think you should see a counseller.
anon
its okay. my ex did that. and when she finally told us, we all understood. it took some time, but all her friends still love her. and we have moved on. we had contacted social services, and they tried to take her away from her family because she said that they had abused her. but it all turned out okay. tell the truth. it might not be so bad. im not judging you, sometimes you cant help it.
Anonymous
that is a disturbing picture.
Anonymous
:’( i was raped…im 15 now…why would you lie about somethimg like this?
K.
its okay. im the same way, kinda. i know how you feel, dont listen to these poeple. i think its alright as long as ur not telling the cops and stuff.
Kayla Mason
I lied too..
Anonymous
this is all disturbing
Anonymous
i don’t know how you could live with yourself after telling a lie that could ruin not only your life, but someone else’s life. what a cruel, cruel person you are.
Anonymous
what a cruel cruel person you are to not only want to ruin your own life with a lie like this, but also ruin someone else’s life. all because of a lie. why? what sick people you are
susan nichol
As someone who was sexually abused when i was 9 years old, i very angry with fucking idiots like you.
do you know how hard it is for people to believe you.
one day you might get raped for real and no one will believe you, have you ever thought about that, you stupid stupid little girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
unlike you i don’t lie about being abused