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  Anonymous too

  Sometimes I think my best friend hates me. It hurts me more than I ever thought anything like it would. We have had alot of fights and I’m sorry about things I’ve said everyday, I wish we could just find a solution to our problems.

   
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  Anonymous

  IF YOU HATE YOUR SO CALLED BEST FRIEND, THEN HE OR SHE IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND. YOU SAY YOU DON’T LIKE THIS PERSON, THEN WHY COMMUNICATE WITH HIM OR HER.

   
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  K.

  I also hate my “best friend” so I know what you’re talking about.

   
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  Anonymous too

  to the second commenter, people grow and change. Sometimes you still wanna be best friends with them because of all your memories and you still have hope that they will be like the old them again. But you may hate them, but still have those memories and consider them your best friend… if that makes sense

   
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  Anonymous

  i no how that is! sometimes i hate mine too
  cuz its like shes changing into a person i never knew

   
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  Anonymous

  i know how u feel
  i cant stand the site of this girl
  she just assumed we were best friends n i cant stand the sight of her
  shes so clingy

   
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  'Cake

  She fuckin’ steals things & money from me & my family.

   
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  pu.

  My best friend wants to have my life, including my friends… and probably my boyfriend–

   
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  Megan

  I can’t stand any of my friends! But I’ve had them so long it’s really hard to make new ones. Hopefully in college I’ll meet some better people…

   
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  Anonymous

  me too!
  i know exacally how you feel and it sucks

   
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  Evaa

  Ya, ppl changed so fast. It`s terribly sorry to knw u hate ur bestfren..
  Then, be though. Dun get stuck with old memories n else. Living in gr8 memories is so comfortable. But, de reality will hurt u much. U must choose. Stop ur relationship unless u wna get hurt more.
  Cheers Up ! Merry x-mast.. ^^

   
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  Anonymous

  wacheni kuhate

   
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  NBL

  MY BEST FRIEND AND I USED TO SHARE EVERYTHING IN LIFE TILL THE DAY WHEN WE BEGIN TO WORK TOGETHER.THAT WAS A NIGHTMARE,DAY BY DAY IT WORSEN…NOW WE DON’T TALK TO EACH OTHER NOT EVEN BEEN ABLE TO SAY HELLO SHE HATES ME LIKE I DO.THATS VERY SAD BUT ANYWAY.

   
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  Anonymous

  I know that feeling. Ever since my “new” best friend came into the group. I feel like I’m just the third wheel. I really hate it.

  They do nothing about how I feel. I feel like I should find other people but I don’t cope well with other people. :\

   
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  ??

  I really dont understand, how can you hate your bestfriend? if you hate them, you wouldnt call them your “bestfriend” ? surly they would be a friend who you dislike?

   
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  tish

  *sigh* I know how it feels…….terrible. I hate my best friend too…..she’s changed….she’s moody and hurts my feelings a lot and never talks to me anymore…..I don’t even know what happened.

   
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  Sicca

  Sighh
  I know what you mean hon.
  It’s jealousy for me though.
  My best friend is so perfect that it makes me hate her at times, but I know that it’s just me being stupid and that I love her more than life.

   
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  Anonymous

  im afraid to tell them secrets cause i think theyll judge me

   
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  ceesee

  Me too i hate my best friend because she’s becoming someone I dont know! I just wanna slap the bitch!

   
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  ceesee

  slap some sense into her maybe that will bring her back.

   
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  a.

  There was once this girls, she used to be my best friend, i cant call her now my best friend cause she changed so much, like ceesee said: “i just wanna slap the bitch” ) so funny, but i keep avoiding her but its hard cause we know each other for 20 years and i think she keeps calling me and i call her once in a while just because we feel that “we have to”. i wish i could just tell her to go fuck herself, i wish i could forget she ever existed life is much better without her

   
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  triumphant BShit

  i both hate and love my best freind. things went well for about 4 years. then she turned into someone i didnt reckognise. she now tries to best me, puts me down all the time. but my little secret: each time she tries to outdo me, i feel good because i know shes jealous. each time shes sais “im better than you” i want to say, im nicer, people like me more because im not a decietfull bitch. your built like a bowling pin and if i had a dick you could suck it. eat that beotch

   
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  Anonymous

  I hate mine, too. Only, she’s not my best friend, she just assumes she is and gets offended when I say otherwise. My mom loves her and invites her over all the time and she takes over my life. She wants to be me, and have everything I have, and my mom wishes she could have her as a daughter instead. She won’t go away no matter how hard I try and no one believes me when I say all the bad things she’s done and all the lies she’s told, so they all think I’m just being mean.

   
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  Anonymous

  well, here’s how I feel:
  We’ve been best friends for 6 years now and it has been great. Now, however, I see things at her that bother me: she’s selfish, she doesn’t give a shit about how she should behave in public and doesn’t either know how, she’s (too) childish and whenever something shows up that makes her feel inconfortable she just turns away and leaves, she won’t face the problem. She’ll blame someone else. The thing is, I know she has always been like this. Maybe I’m the one who changed. Maybe I grew up. But we know eachother very well and I know she understands things I can only discuss with her. It would be so hard to find someone else to do that with. I would feel extremely lonely. She would be devastated by a “breakup” too… I don’t know what will happen, but I feel something’s gonna happen soon.

   
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  Anonymous

  me too they piss the fuck out of me

   
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  JLegend

  I couldn’t hate my best friend ever. She hurts me daily and I’m always going to be second place in her book. However, the only people she buts above me are men, and sometimes that just happens.

  Still, I wish she cared enough about me to want to listen to me sometimes.

   
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  PQ

  I hate how she always plays coy just to get other people’s attention. And the other one..man, she just doesn’t listen.

  It’s okay honey, you’re not the only one who has to deal with it.

   
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  Anonymous

  I’m so glad it’s not just me.
  It’s probably jealousy, but I’ve never felt this hatred before in my life. It’s happened with every one of my childhood friends. I don’t know, there’s probably something wrong with me.
  After a while I notice all these irritating things about them and then I can’t seem to stop noticing them.
  I’m sorry, I felt the need to rant

   
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  Anonymous

  i hate my girl best friend because i feel like she is stealing everything and everyone i love. especially my guy best friend. It feels like she is competing with me. She wants to get all the attention that i have! And I’m starting to hate her because of that.

   
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  M.

  I used to have a friend like this. it started this way. we competed with everything. it was like on the outside we were friends but on the inside we were enamies trying to do better than the other one. then we got closer and it became a real friendship. then it started again. we never admited it to each other. but we both knew it was there.

   
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  Anonymous

  I know what you mean. There was this person, we called each other “best friend” and she really was mine, but to her I was just a replacement. But we’ve been friends for so long that I don’t want to loose the memories, and I’m afraid that my other friends might start disliking me if I leave her. It’s hard. Now, more and more often she pisses me off, but I can’t help to think “where would I be without her” so I don’t leave…and I kind of hate her for that (and other things.)

   
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  JBinDAplace

  I do so at the moment.

   
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  Gaba

  I’ve been friends with her for 10 years. I’ve always been in the situation where I am at the receiving end of getting hurt, I use to think it was just me until I realized what true friendship was with another friend. My friend for 10 years always makes the conversation about her self and brags about everything. She knows what I lack and shines light on it. It’s hard to break off because of our history but sometimes I’ve just had enough of her self centered-ness. I need to find confidence and a life outside her, then I can be happier. At least I think so.

   

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