I don't want to have sex ever...

 

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    Anonymous

    if you dont trust them its better not to than to fuck em all anyway!!!

     
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    Anonymous

    no. most people are untrustworthy.

     
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    Anonymous

    I am exactly the same

     
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    Shannon

    Don’t worry, i feel EXACTLY the same :( !

     
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    Anonymous

    no,it is hard to trust someone with our body

    but take your time
    maybe there is someone trust worthy

     
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    :)

    …probably you’re still young…..and someday when you’ll find some one you can trust….you will change your mind :)

    never say never in life :p

     
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    :)

    …its like when we were 5 or 6 yrs old…..and saw someone kissing…we tought: bleqqqqqqqq its disgusting :P :)

     
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    Jo.

    ever trust anyone to have sex with youuu?? 0__0

     
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    Anonymous

    me too

     
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    Anonymous

    same here. don’t worry.
    they even had an episode about that on the Tyra Banks show. you’re not alone

     
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    Anonymous

    It’s not weird, I’m 19 and I have the same problem. Everyone has their own reasons….

     
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    ??

    thats not weird at all. Dont worry, i feel the same

     
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    Anonymous

    I feel the same too ..that’s why I’m thinking of becoming a nun …I’m catholic ^_^

     
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    mystery

    im the same too.i dont trust people anyways so its not the suprising to me that there are others like me.

     
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    Sam.

    same thing here !

     
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    AM

    Not weird at all. I’ve got many regrets, i know how you feel.

     
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    Me

    Not wierd at all. Sharing our bodies with another is a very personal thing. Be picky :)

     
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    Anonymous

    I feel the same dont worry.. I like the description about being 5 or 6 though :D

     
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    Hope

    That is not weird at all. Sex is very intimate, and trusting someone that much takes a lot. I just hope that one day you are able to trust someone enough. God Bless!

     
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    Pimpz-Ahoy

    Its okay, I totally get it.

     
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    Zero

    I feel the same as you right now but it isn’t because of a trust issue, I find sex disgusting in a way and I feel that I would have to love the person a lot to have sex with them. But I know that if I’m wanting to spend the rest of my life with them, I would want to have children with them. Why? Because children are a way of continuing our own immortality for generations and generations. It’ll take some time, but I think you’ll be able to trust the one you love to be able to have sex. Take your time, don’t rush, you’ll be okay.

     
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    Anonymous

    i feel the same way…:(

     
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    Anonymous

    I don’t know, it’s the same here…

     
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    Amelie

    Me too. The most I will do is masturbating, I guess…

     
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    Anonymous

    I used to feel the same way, until I found someone that I do trust. You’ll get there.

     
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    Lambxo

    I felt this way too and it caused me incredible anxiety, but then I found the right person, we took it slowly and now, sex is great! Don’t let it get you down you will find someone and when the time is right, you will seize the opportunity.

     
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    Anonymous

    I didnt either, until I fell in love with my husband and married him. I trust him more than anyone in the world and want to have sex with him all the time. Once you find a guy you can trust with your life you will chang your mind.

     
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    Anonymous

    i’m too scared to trust

     
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    Me

    i wonder if anyone would accept to marry me but not have sex with me
    but won’t let live with her forever !!!

     
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    Anonymous

    I know it..the feeling..I thought I was alone..but..I think I don’t like sex

     
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    zackayaka

    I Want to have sex sooo bad but i want to wait till i am married :)

     
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    hazel

    Don’t worry. I feel the same.

     
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    ...

    i feel exactly the same =/

     
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    Anonymous

    SO not weird, I am the exact same way.

     
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    Anonymous

    i felt like that, until i fell in love with my best friend (warning, ur first time is seriously horrible, but it gets better :P )

     
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    alreADY DEAD

    Same here…….i cnt trust ny1…..u r nt alone

     
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    Anonymous

    HEY WHO EVR U ARE i u realized one thng which i can feel that someone used you…..u now thr is no one in thos world to whom u can trust soo be patient and u’ll get one person INSHALLAH…….U NOW WHAT the best thng in islam is that it has very beautiful relations and ristriction in sex soo no one can use us………marriage is the best relation in this whole world soo tried to get some lifepartner first marry hum/her and thn every thng………….take care MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND FORGIVE YOUR SINS AND OUR SINS………:)

     
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    URS

    HEY WHO EVR U ARE i u realized one thng which i I can feel that someone used you…..u now thr is no one in thos world to whom u can trust soo be patient and u’ll get one person INSHALLAH…….U NOW WHAT the best thng in islam is that it has very beautiful relations and ristriction in sex soo no one can use us………marriage is the best relation in this whole world soo tried to get some lifepartner first marry hum/her and thn every thng………….take care MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND FORGIVE YOUR SINS AND OUR SINS………:)

     
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    anonymous

    hey!im with you…but right now,i realized something… sex is a beginning of new life…sex is sacred..its not for fun nor for past time…i can have sex after im married…

     
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    BabyD

    I thought I was the only one. I don’t ever want to have sex because I have serious trust issues. Pain is the least of my worries where sex is concerned and i realised that i don’t like it when guys touch me intimately. I thought I was weird but atleast now I know I’m not.

     
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    sdf

    I know what you mean!!

     
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    Sazarrama

    I think the same thing.

     
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    Anonymous

    I feel exactly the same. You’re not alone there. TBH, I’m shitting bricks aout it.

     
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    I291

    It’s not weird, it’s pretty damn sane
    I thought that, then changed my mind, got hurt and now I’m back to square one

     
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    victoria

    I felt very same ur way…..I will never never never had sex because what it for?

    Just felt good then what next??

    That why just put your sheild on your arm
    Smile!!!

     
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    M.

    My brother and this dude I had a crush on for years both kinda melestered me…so i didn’t want the only thing I had left of my innocence ripped away as well. I made my current boyfriend wait for a year and a half before we did the deed. I was soooooo nervous. But hey, look on the up side..if you look after your health, you could become like, the oldest virgin ever!!= )

     

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