You need to learn to go your own way and be different from everyone else. Who cares what other peoople have to say as long as you feel confortable in your own skin is all that matters.
Anonymous
Dont base your entire life on what anyone thinks about you…
that way you’ll never live
¬¬
=( Sad, VERY
Anonymous
i base some of my life on that but haveing fun is all that matters i dont care what others say. Never let other people see how much their comments hurt you x
nookie
I think this person has lost someone who passed on because they said “what you’d think’, not “what you would think”. Perhaps this is a good thing that one lives to make someone maybe a parent who has passed on, proud.
Anonymous
It could be sad… or you finally find someone you could trust and look up, and in result their opinion is very important to you.
I hope it is the second one <3
beee
me too! but im trying to do things my way. its hard but im slowly learning. best wishes for you and good luck finding your own path =)
Anonymous
I do this as well. One the one hand, it makes things so hard, but on the other hand, it’s easy, because it kind of makes your decisions for you The worst part is not getting reassurance from the person you’re trying to impress.
Good luck, and don’t stress, you’re not the only person who does this. In fact I’d bet most people do it to some extent.
x
knowlseyDUDEE
i do this too. =/ i wish i didnt
Lambxo
It isn’t always sad you know… I base my life on what my dad thinks because I love him very much and I know that he cares about me and my future. He has helped me overcome everything to get into university, to find my place in life and to be happy.
<3 I Love you Dad, thanks for my beautiful life <3
JELLY GIRL.
Good Luck!
LoveLess
Yeah.. I always worry about what people would think about me… *sigh*
Shaymaa
I know exactly how it feels , to love things you never loved because someone else loves them !
Kari
i used to try to impress my father…but i guess i was never good enough to…cuz he never showed me he was proud and still doesn’t …so i stopped trying and became my own person…and i am a lot happier now…
Anonymous
I know how if feels. I base alot of my decisions on what my mom thinks. just to avoid discussions. or i lie to her. which isn’t any better. she will never change and I don’t feel like dealing with it any more.
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Clementine
me too…
Anonymous
You need to learn to go your own way and be different from everyone else. Who cares what other peoople have to say as long as you feel confortable in your own skin is all that matters.
Anonymous
Dont base your entire life on what anyone thinks about you…
that way you’ll never live
¬¬
=( Sad, VERY
Anonymous
i base some of my life on that but haveing fun is all that matters i dont care what others say. Never let other people see how much their comments hurt you
x
nookie
I think this person has lost someone who passed on because they said “what you’d think’, not “what you would think”. Perhaps this is a good thing that one lives to make someone maybe a parent who has passed on, proud.
Anonymous
It could be sad… or you finally find someone you could trust and look up, and in result their opinion is very important to you.
I hope it is the second one <3
beee
me too! but im trying to do things my way. its hard but im slowly learning. best wishes for you and good luck finding your own path =)
Anonymous
I do this as well. One the one hand, it makes things so hard, but on the other hand, it’s easy, because it kind of makes your decisions for you
The worst part is not getting reassurance from the person you’re trying to impress.
Good luck, and don’t stress, you’re not the only person who does this. In fact I’d bet most people do it to some extent.
x
knowlseyDUDEE
i do this too. =/ i wish i didnt
Lambxo
It isn’t always sad you know… I base my life on what my dad thinks because I love him very much and I know that he cares about me and my future. He has helped me overcome everything to get into university, to find my place in life and to be happy.
<3 I Love you Dad, thanks for my beautiful life <3
JELLY GIRL.
Good Luck!
LoveLess
Yeah.. I always worry about what people would think about me… *sigh*
Shaymaa
I know exactly how it feels , to love things you never loved because someone else loves them !
Kari
i used to try to impress my father…but i guess i was never good enough to…cuz he never showed me he was proud and still doesn’t
…so i stopped trying and became my own person…and i am a lot happier now…
Anonymous
I know how if feels. I base alot of my decisions on what my mom thinks. just to avoid discussions. or i lie to her. which isn’t any better. she will never change and I don’t feel like dealing with it any more.