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Anonymous
i know what you mean happpens to me to
Anonymous
Everyone Gets Judged And does Judge others
Its how we Work…
Anonymous
Same here. x
Anonymous
Same. I hate how people don’t even bother to get to know me then make judgements based on what they may have heard etc. You’re not alone
Anonymous
“Everyone Gets Judged And does Judge others
Its how we Work…”
people who think that are the people who judge people based on what they see, or what they’ve heard, not at all bothering to talk to the person or get to know them.
just wait for that one event in your life that changes the way you think and the way you perceive people, it makes you realize no one has the right to judge anyone. judging people takes effort, you consciously have to think about them, not judging is actually really, really easy to do. i hope you find that out for yourself soon.
Anonymous
fuck them
hopelss.romantc
totally
Anonymous
Nobody should judge anybody.. God alone is the JUDGE.. Jesus Christ is the Righteous Judge.. He does all things RIGHT.. Therefore, He alone can judge..
Anonymous
Yeah. They know nothing. Sigh… makes me sad…
La Muffin
same here
bee
Arghhh,I so feel your feeling..Ppl should just bother their own business…Get a life!!
Anonymous
maa ki chut
Anonymous
Same here
Lucky Star
stops worrying you when you stop caring.
LoveMeForMe[:
Yea. People should really get to know you first before they start judgin.
Anonymous
you write here to let more ppl judge you heeheee
Anonymous
i know exactly how u feel… they dont even bother to learn about u just judge and move on
Anonymous
a lifetime of hubris makes some people that way…..
JustADreamer
People probably don’t even judge you as much as you think they do. People who worry about strangers judging them are generally paranoid or are people who also overly-judge others.
Anonymous
you don’t write here for more people to judge you; you write here because it’s supposed to be a nonjudgmental place.
G
I know exactly what you mean, people judge me on the way I present myself, and they therefore don’t like me because of who they think I am and what I’m like.
Anonymous
They are STRANGERS! Don’t expect them to know about you……It hurts the most when they say stuff, wthout actually knowing you…Just let them bite on the shit! Do you care? Don’t! They don’t deserve a minute of your thought!
ray
that’s why now I don’t fucking care with other ppl. I do what I wanna do, fuck anybody else that don’t like it.
-]
I kinda agree with Lucky Star. Even though I think no one has the right to judge another person, based on what they think they see… it takes some time, to learn not to care.
broski1
society is all about judgement. it’s built into our brains as like, a protection thing. i would just be aware of the fact that yes, people are gonna judge you, so present yourself in a way that you are cool with what they assume you are, whether they like it or not.
Anonymous
fuck them. They can go fuck themselves really. I don’t give a fuck what people think anymore. no one has the rigt to judge you or try and make you think differently. If strangers stare at you go tell them to fuck themselves. If its someone you know then fucking bitchslap them and say fuck off.
..fucking strangers dont no a fucking thing so they can go fucking die in a hole, wait ! the hole doesn’t want them… oh wells
Anonymous
i get bullied because people fucking judge me before they no anything about me!
fuck them.
oimoi
why must every1 have sterotype and just take it that if someone looks that way,he is that type of a person
Anonymous
“Nobody should judge anybody.. God alone is the JUDGE.. Jesus Christ is the Righteous Judge.. He does all things RIGHT.. Therefore, He alone can judge..”
god doesnt exist
..
that’s the reason why they’re STRANGERS!!
Distressd
…same here.. ad that has ruind my life…
i have been working in the same place fr almost six years now.. ant just cause of sm ppl ia had a lil misunderstanding with, who no longer are working in my office, i get judged by new ppl as well!! i mean, a lil thing, going around a can change so much …
and the new ppl dont evn bothr geting to knw me. watevr they hear frm others.. they just judge me frm tht…
i know how it feels.. it has ruind my life.. just because of this .. i m roumord to b “loose character” now.. and me, being a reserved person.. who seriously beleives in platonic frndship, u can imagine wat i m going thru….
Anonymous
People always freaking judge me because I’m ‘emo’. I get called emo by random people on the street and in shops and it annoys me, they don’t know the first thing about me. I’m not depressed like they think I am. If someone is so freaking shallow that they can’t see past a stupid label they give me, they’re generally not worth talking to.
Shandy
I love this secret zen in the same position myself. I hate it when ppl open their mouths like they know me or what goes on. U dont know anything so why bother saying anything
darling
U know actually somebody told me one day exactlly about that. When people start 2 judge u be happy and don’t get angry coz they are jelous on u so that’s why they talk bullshit but u should get woried more if the people will stop talking about u
danny
same