Bisexual or just curious

 

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    hasan

    maybe u r right ..that’s how it began

     
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    Anonymous

    Or maybe both??

     
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    Anonymous

    I ask myself the same question…

     
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    Anonymous

    most likely just curious…

     
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    L

    curious i guess
    im curious too
    i can understand u
    its just fun :D

     
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    outsider

    i understand this its a thought i often think.
    people ask me if im bi but i dont no and i tell them that but they dont understand its either you are or you aren’t and its like if you aren’t why do you get of with guys and girls.
    like i have always liked girls but now ive been with boys and liked it ( im a girl by the way) but im confused am i just curious . its like your picture said

     
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    Anonymous

    I was pretty sick on dope & she had to take care of me but she was all over me…. mhm – argh.

    *shudders*

     
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    Thinker

    Ive been with men most of my life but now im living with my girlfriend of 18 months….People ask me what way I am and all I say is “I am what I am….what ever that will be”
    I still find some men attractive but this stage of my life im really into woman (have been for a while)… I dont understand why people want to label others when we should just accecpt them for them. Go with your heart and if you want to explore then do it there is nothing wrong with trying before you buy (settle down)

     
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    johanna

    i think u r just curious most people dont admit it but there comes a point in everyones life where we just get curious some time its a phase we go thru

     
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    TheGirl.

    i think im bi. my friend is curious. so we have fun together.

    but what she doesnt understand is that i also think im in love with her.

    how do i tell her i want more?

    xx

     
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    Me

    Just go with what you find most attractive and if thats both men and women good for you :)

     
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    Anonymous

    Those clouds make me feel really sick.

     
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    Me

    I ask myself that every day.

     
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    Alice

    I’m bi and it rocks

     
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    F.M.L.

    if it’s just a “phase” that we go thru then i’ve been in it for awhile… i had my first gay experiance when I was 18 i had never thought about women before then. I am happily married now but I can’t get women out of my mind…. I don’t agree that it’s a phase….do i think i’m bi….yes….. do i admit it….no…. i think if you’ve never been with the same sex then it’s curious….if you’ve done it and you like it and would do it again in a heartbeat….bi

     
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    Anonymous

    you’ll be surprised ;)

     
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    Annoynymous

    you’ll be surprised ;)

     
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    &then

    i’m curious too, it’s really fun to think about and fantasize

     
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    Ham Stealy

    It’s about who the person is not what they have down there.

     
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    girlie

    I started being with a girl about a year ago, and i also have a boyfriend, do i have a preference? no i enjoy the both, is this a phase? or am i Bi? i still dont know. But i am in love with her now and i cant tell anyone cause its not acceptable. i feel like screaming

     
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    JB

    Same over here.

    Oh the woes.

     
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    Anonymous

    im in the same page, i dont know what is happening to me, but 5 years ago i started to see the girls atractive and i didnt say this to anybody until i realized that is my life, that doesnt make a bad person, and anyone can judge me, my boyfriends know and he accepts.. but i dont see myselve saying it to everyone else..

     
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    Annonygirl

    i can relate, i ask myself that every day…

     
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    Just Gone

    I thing of girls in a sexual way and I think I like it, but I don’t find girls attractive, not like when I see a hot guy walking down the street I like to look.

     
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    serg

    enjoy sex, is a good thing. we are in a new age open your hart to love anyone!!!!

     
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    Z

    I think you’re just curious. Why don’t you try being bi? See if you’re much happier being bi than being straight. The important thing is for you to be happy and that you know who you are. :)

     
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    T

    i feel same way

     
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    Anonymous

    I really don’t know whether or not if i’m BI i have sexual dreams that i want to fuck transexuals but i never dared to i have no idea what to do really .

     
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    Ela W

    No way!!! I mean, if you really are confused and yo havent done anything yet, dont do it!. In this search for sexuality, you might end up doingthins you will regret. Like, if you hook up with guys and girls right now, and later you decide to be straight, the grls who you end up with… even if you wanna marry them, they could never let go of your past. It will be a sahadow chasing you, and she could never trust you.
    I used to be a free thinker, letyour heart be with anyone who deserves it no matter if guy or girl. Bt until it happened to me, i suffered the pain of my life… cause I never know if hes using me a a cover :(

     
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    hiii

    i think that mostly curious!!:D

     
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    Z

    It’s natural to be curious. :)

     
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    notsoaverageguy

    I think I’m curious only because i haven’t looked further into it. Maybe you’ll know when the time comes

     
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    Anonymous

    I think your question needs a lot of field research… safely, try both ways, and draw conclusions… and if you wish, put off for ever the conclusions, and just keep doing “research”…!

     
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    xx

    i can relate.
    i dont understand what am I.

    i loved 1 guy for 2 yrs and i left him because i fell inlove with a girl.ugh. then after breaking up with the girl, i fell into another girl again

    ugh. thissucks

     
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    Dee

    I’m a girl, now 21 and have dated with a lot of guys. The last couple of years, I started to get into girls in a strange way…. Uhmm, I have a lot of friends that are bi and even lesbian and maybe they influence me. But sometimes I imagine myself making out with them. I have a really good friend and she is gorgeous… and since we’re friends we haven’t dated other guys. We feel like as long as we have each other it’s enough. We love each other. But we never went to the next level and never really talked about it. I do feel like she urges to, but is afraid it’ll screw it all up and stuff…
    I’m confused. I love her so much and don’t really like seeing her with someone else, but still would like a guy around me.

     
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    That Girl

    I didn’t even know what bisexual was when i relised i loved a girl. I knew i still liked guys at that point also… but i felt myself wanting to be with her more and more, to hold her hand, hear her heart beat…i was passionatly in love.

    I thought there was something wrong with me. It was later i relised there was a thing called Bi-sexual. To me, i can love both male and female… and i mean love, not in a light sence but the fact i could give my life for them. I dont think that could be a passing phase. I’ve done sexual things with a girl- and love it! I happilt do it again and again. I also have a bf but i also have a gf…and she has a bf, but they’re ok with it.

    It’s not greedy… i dont do it for the sexual kick or that i can get it whenever i want it. I do it because i really care about them and aslong as they are there and aslong as both genders are there… i dont think i could stop beig bi-sexual.
    It’s not always JUST a phase.
    See where life takes you….

     
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    Double S

    if u haven’t done it alot before then you’re curious, i understand u.

     
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    mmmmm

    i dont know what i am either…i know im not a lesbian…and i love guys..like all i want is to have sex..but i also like girls..i dont think i can sleep with one but i would…i dont know…thats y im like you…im not sure what i am…am i bi or just curious?

     
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    Anonymous

    Dee…You and I are in the same boat.

     
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    psycha

    i’m curious too, but afraid to find out……lol

     
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    Josie

    I hate it when my frinds say im greedy for being bi.

     
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    GUY18

    I’m also bi but I havent been into a guy or girl relationship… and none of my friends know it…
    and I’m scared to tell the truth because I dont want other girls and people to stay away from me :(

     
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    secret person

    IM BOTH ?

     
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    crunch

    I ask myself that every day. Curious, perhaps?

     
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    Sad

    i think im just curious…but i cant help to imagine me with other girls…

     
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    seyh

    be B .there’s nothing wrong with that.i actually mostly like guys but when i see a girl who’s lesbian i like to do it with her

     
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    Anonymous

    Just curious I guess…I mean if you like kiss the person and stuff then you might be bi.

     
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    Mrs.Kaulitz

    It happens to me 2 ..
    I mean, I have a secret with a similar meaning … Im sure it’s just … curiousness, cause i’ve never done something like trying .. [ if i continue the sentence I will reveal another secret xD ] but it’s OK to be a B either !
    It’s realy nice we have this web to unpack our feelings & thougts (:

     
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    Anonymous

    same :/ im so confused

     
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    wooto

    im curious too and i want to try it out but its hard ):

     
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    ozzy_ezza

    gay! and proud of it. no stinky cock 4 me. i Fukn hate phallus!

     
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    I'm afraid of u guys ..... U've to sit down & think deed ..... U might be doing yourselves great harm than good. Pls, ruminate over this!

    This is something else

     
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    007

    I’m afraid of u guys ….. U have to sit down & think deeply ….. U might be doing yourselves great harm than good. Pls, ruminate over this!

     
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    Anonymous

    don’t be afraid to drop the “curious’ and just be honest about it

     

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